tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4700985452424207168.post3910939555009874154..comments2024-02-17T01:04:43.319+08:00Comments on On Eagles' Wings: Them BabiesLizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00162988536992087007noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4700985452424207168.post-84700405412842849962011-05-16T23:51:47.261+08:002011-05-16T23:51:47.261+08:00>>Wei Xiong
I don't know if that makes ...>>Wei Xiong<br /><br />I don't know if that makes me a loving person, but thank you :)<br /><br />>>sugarmouse<br /><br />Ahaha, our biological clock eh? Hm, I thought it would start ticking when we get much muchhhh older, so I am just kinda surprised it's ticking NOW, when I'm 23 :P And thank you ! :)<br /><br />>>sHaMiNi @ Winzi Sherlz<br /><br />I guess we've all reached that stage in life eh? Thinking about babies and all :D Ahaha, I dream about it, but I dunno if we can get married early :P Maybe you will go first??? xD<br /><br />>>k0k s3n w4i<br /><br />I know. I've watched enough dramas and sitcoms to know that some issues from sacrificing your dreams to be a homemaker is that you might end up resenting the children for what, in your mind, you could have had. And I'm all about women power and equality and all that jazz, but I have confidence in my guy. It's possible, that ten years down the line, I'll read this and think how utterly stupid and naive I was to believe that, but right now, I have trust in my future husband :D Let's just hope that never happens :)<br /><br />Of course, I do want career AND family too :) Thank you for your opinion ! (Never thought of it that way till now :P)Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00162988536992087007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4700985452424207168.post-52624162263618007572011-05-16T20:31:56.633+08:002011-05-16T20:31:56.633+08:00there's nothing wrong with wanting to be a sta...there's nothing wrong with wanting to be a stay-at-home mom. i think it's a noble profession and i have great admiration for those who would make that sacrifice.<br /><br />however, if i am a girl, i wouldn't do it. and i wouldn't advice any of my girl friends to do it. the bread-winning father and the homemaker mother family model is great at bringing up a family, but it can just as easily be a tragic arrangement. i personally know too many women who have spent their lives sacrificing their dreams to do this, trusting that the man will always provide and appreciate it - but when the man started seeing a mistress on the side, the wife couldn't really do anything about it because she's wholly dependent on the husband's continuous goodwill financially. supposing if the man bails? no, the traditional family format gives far too much power to the man.<br /><br />i think that women should always have their own career and life apart from the family. it's the only way to be secure.<br /><br />but that's just what i think.k0k s3n w4ihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09564727389837796019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4700985452424207168.post-23968378611832786292011-05-16T13:36:59.102+08:002011-05-16T13:36:59.102+08:00darlin,even i always imagine getting married and s...darlin,even i always imagine getting married and starting a family..lols!cant believe all of us feeling same..<br /><br />neways it will b so cool if u n sam can get marry early...v will hav hell of party!yeh!!!sHaMiNi @ Winzi Sherlzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13952363524688145576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4700985452424207168.post-32961159363684681022011-05-15T08:57:25.100+08:002011-05-15T08:57:25.100+08:00you write so well and nope, nothing's wrong wi...you write so well and nope, nothing's wrong with you; it's just that biological clock ticking. lol. all of us are pretty much in the same boat, i reckon. it's just that some of us aren't so brazen to admit.SGRMSE.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05196092150293294466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4700985452424207168.post-32913264546618050142011-05-14T02:12:49.414+08:002011-05-14T02:12:49.414+08:00nothing wrong about your dream. you confident of m...nothing wrong about your dream. you confident of marry young. i guess that you are loving person..Wei Xionghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07099722751060455845noreply@blogger.com