Male Chauvinists ALERT!!!

Masalah: Suami curang

Punca Masalah:

:: Isteri tidak tahu mengendalikan rumahtangga
(tidak tahu membasuh baju, tidak pandai memasak etc.)
:: Isteri tidak tahu mengambil hati suami
:: Isteri tidak mengikut kehendak suami
:: Isteri suka marah tanpa sebab
:: Si Suami tidak mengawal nafsu
:: Godaan daripada pihak ketiga

Alternatif Penyelesaian Masalah:

:: Isteri perlu menjaga rumah dengan baik
:: Isteri mesti tahu menjaga hati suami

and other similar suggestions, to that effect.

I don't know about you, but as a FEMALE, I was extremely offended by this presentation by one of the groups in my Decision-Making class.

All 5 of them -- males. No surprise there.

Is it just me, or, according to them, 4 out of the 6 main reasons they came up with for philandering, cheating husbands, is because of the WIFE??

Are you telling me, that when husbands cheat on their wives, their reason is, "My wife nags too much," or "You don't understand! My wife just can't cook!!!" or even "She put my whites and colours in the wash together. I mean, how can you blame me for finding someone else?"

WTH.

Stop blaming the WIFE and look at the HUSBAND for goodness sake. Who are the ones in the wrong here?

What is his excuse? What are the alternatif that he should take?

The husbands are cheating on their wives, and they blame it on the fact that the wife does not know how to properly mengambil his hati?

W.T.H.

There is no denying that there are some brainless, useless morons who actually do cheat on their wives for such idiotic reasons such as those mentioned above.

But those are petty reasons! Not substantial enough! Those are not core issues!

If it were me, I would put reasons such as:

:: marital problems
:: lack of communication between husband and wife
:: husband is a complete IDIOT

Now, those are the real and important issues.

WTH.

There are women who are the best wives, the perfect example of isteri mithali, who do all they can, the best they can. Women who (by their reasoning), can cook, and do the laundry properly, and please their husbands, and not nag. And yet, their husbands (for who knows what excuse) still cheat on them, not satisfied.

Is it still the wife's fault? What's the reason now? She did not wear his favourite colour? Her hair was in a mess when she met him at the door? Sheesh.

You know what was most disappointing for me?

To think that this kind of sexist, male chauvinistic reasoning, this kind of narrow-minded, shallow, despicable and biased mindset, can come from educated university students.

And the worst part is, I don't think they have even the slightest idea that what they have just presented to the class, could be offensive, or that it might be wrong.

We were given a task to research on, and explore an issue, and this is what they come up with?

Reflects the kind of thinking they have.

I am deeply shocked.

Un. Be. Lievable.

WTH